She might be interested in someone else. You are going to listen to this if you refuse to get married or reject a Rishta especially without ridiculing a guy. Women in our society can never be carrier oriented, she can never have some other priorities over marriage. If she got an opinion or voice she is considered "characterless" Or "maunphatt". Similarly, if a guy doesn't want to get married at a particular time " He is not a man"
For women, because she is a woman her only duty is to get married, do chores, wash dishes and bring up her children thats it. She can't have a carrier, if she is focused she is just covering up and she is probably in a relationship with someone r may be many. How dare she have a voice?
" Larkiyon ko university tu parhana e nahi chahiye kharab ho jati hain"
Rishtay walay be like we need a girl who is atleast masters at an age of 18 and she knows everything related to household . She should be so beautiful that one could take eyes off her but no man on earth should have seen her. Only if she fits in this category she is a satisavitri bahu that we need for our boy .
If she is independent if she is working she would be difficult and "jobs wali larkiyn ka kya pata hota hai".
When are we going to treat genders equally when are we going to understand that everyone has a right of choice. Allah has granted us right of choice then who the hell are we to decide which right should be given to whom. We don't even understand where we are going the only aim of you society is get married and have kids for both men and women.
Marriage is just a part of life there are so many other things. How we are going to develop as a society as a country. We like the glittery and shiny thing if a guy earns well nothing else matters for us and if we can show off about our beautiful bahu only then we are going to accept the rishta. And what's happening now people just fake it only to fit in the criteria of best Rishta and after marriage, the families realize what blunder they have made. Are their children compatible, would they be able to bring up a good quality generation? Would they be genuinely happy or it is just going to be a compromise resulting in depression and anxiety later on. Would there be peace at home?
Are they ready to get into a relationship?
do they want similar things from life? Or one would have to sacrifice his or her entire life for someone ending up losing himself.
But yeah we have everything sorted a girl or guy who just get married when society wants them to get married they are the righteous they are the Shareef ones rest are just "mashray ka nasoor"
Grow up, people. Broaden your minds a little why can't you think about a simple thing and just complicate your and other's life. If you can't do any of this just try to keep your mouths shut